All last week, I felt very optimistic about my work and building up my relationship with my boss. Unfortunately, we didn't get to have the 1-on-1 he promised me we would have last week. That's ok. I missed the regularly scheduled time because of a doctor's appointment. Later, we were both really busy and it didn't work out.
Now, he's late for work again and missing the meeting.
Do I remind him of his promise and ask him to reschedule? Do I let it slide and perpetuate the hostility that got us to this point?
He complains that he can't trust me, but then he fails to uphold his commitments. He lies and doesn't realize he's lying. He gossips and doesn't realize he's a gossip. He's a hypocrit and doesn't realize he's a hypocrit.
The whole point is that I KNOW I cannot rely on him. The complete lack of mutual respect is just one aspect of the situation.
172 more days. 120 more work days.
Update: It's like this.
Posted by Flibbertigibbet at July 18, 2005 10:10 AM | TrackBackAh, Flib, if you're feeling this way already my bet is you won't last 120 days. In my experience, when one starts to feel the way that you feel, it's time to put your notice in.
Keep us posted!
Posted by: Ice Scribe at July 18, 2005 01:22 PMDefinitely reschedule. If you're going to stick out that last 120 then you want to make them as bearable as possible.
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