Reader Victor offered good advice in response to my last post. It's so good, I'm making a post out of it.
[C.A.R.]
C is for Change: Can you change your situation? Not necesarilly the situation--it may well be too late for your boss to change, but can you change anything about it? Your work style, change to a different department within the company--anything? If change is not an option, then...
A is for Accept: Can you accept the situation? Lots of things go into this decision (job market, benefits, salary), so think *hard* about it. If you can't accept it, your only option is to..
R is for Resign (or L is for leave): Seriously. If neither C nor A is a viable option, start looking for a new job--life is too short to be miserable.
Which reminds me of one of my mottos: Life is too long to be miserable.
I don't want anyone to worry about me due to my last post, though. I've made up my mind that I have to leave my company. I'm very slow moving about this stuff, so even though I landed solidly in the "disgruntled employee" category over a year ago, I'm just now getting around to applying to new jobs.
But so I am.
So, I'm not stuck and I'm not miserable. I'm just not pleased with my job. I'll fix it!
Best wishes are always welcome, though.
Posted by Flibbertigibbet at May 19, 2005 06:39 PMGlad to hear it. It's never an easy decision, but it sounds like the right one to me. Best of luck on the job search!
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